Love me the way I want to be loved.

The Five Love Languages
Your primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Quality Time.

Complete set of results
Physical Touch : 11
Quality Time : 7
Words of Affirmation : 5
Acts of Service : 4
Receiving Gifts : 3

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others. Dr. Chapman's love languages are: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch.

Take the test

This was the test I took sometime in March, which left me in tears in front of the computer because I felt so alone in our relationship at that time.

It's the people around you. You've got yourself a new job and you're one of the oldest guys around at the office and everyone else is mostly still in their early 20's, single, confused (perhaps), still out to impress the world, out to tell the world who they think they are.

No one there talks about getting married. But everyone else at home does. Even you tell yourself that you need to tie the knot soon.

You've put yourself under so much pressure and you did not share it with me. We've always been able to talk about anything at all, haven't we? I guess we drifted apart so it made it hard to share. You thought I was super keen on getting hitched. I was wondering why the hell you're pushing for it to be so soon. Though inside me, I was happy that I had gotten a rare catch of the male species...one that actually wants to settle down. But on the whole, I wasn't exactly keen yet and was actually afraid that you were going to pop the question soon.

So now everything is hey-ok between us. We've got it all sorted out (well, kind of) and we're both ok about things. I could say that we're back on track. And that's good.

I've got quite abit of things to adapt to, with the changes that are happening around us.

I'm not totally comfortable with the fact that you see beautiful people everyday at work. Pretty girls with slender bodies that are proportionate in every way. It makes me insecure but it's not something that I can do anything about. Perhaps if would work if you stop trying to tell me what's trendy these days like I'm some middle-aged woman from the west who dresses so badly. I mean, its ok to tell me what's the latest stuff but leave it to me to decide if I want to pick them up. Already it doesn't help that i'm not tall, slim and pretty.

Yeah, these are my insecurities. I've got to live with them. I know. But it's just not so helpful that I don't feel appreciated for the things that I feel confident about, or for whatever effort I try to put in.

Man....so much more to say but I'm really sleepy now. Have a wedding tomorrow morning.