We went for coffee and karaoke with his secondary school friends last night. It was very fun. I think its always fun when you have one big group of guys together. No offense to females but I think that group gatherings are always more fun when there are more guys around. Let's put it this way, one big girl-group outing is fun in its own way. In the sense where you can sit and chat for hours about anything at all over cups of coffee. But that's the nature of girls I guess. We are less rowdy, we don't do crazy silly things etc. I suppose girls have this thing about upholding their "image" when in public (or even in the privacy of a ktv room?) But guys are different. Sometimes I think guys are more able to just let go and be silly and have fun wthout worrying about how others see them.

That group of my friends that we went to Altivo with together are a good example. They prefer to sit and talk about life and bitch about people in the office. Most are too concious of themselves to really let go and have fun the super crazy way. Honestly, not very spontaneous people.

I'm not saying one is better than the other. I like a balance of both in my life and I think I'm a lucky girl.

I remember a big group of guys we used to hang out with in college. About 11 of them I think. Namely Leslie and Alvin (twins) Sherwan, Choon Hong and Choon Hiong (twins), Melvin, YaoKun, Eric, Able, Chris and Tian Lun. With us 4 girls, we were a pretty large group. We'd go to Leslie and Alvin's house after school and some would play mahjong and the rest would just chill out. I cannot really remember what we would do together but I remember it was fun because the guys were funny and very crazy. Not too sure of what happened exactly to cause the group to split because I cannot remember the events clearly.